Saturday, February 28, 2009

Court & Ice-cold Water

Court #1 Down!

It’s Saturday and we’ve had a relaxing morning, sleeping in, breakfast in the hotel, quiet time, and Russian study. Yesterday we had the Preliminary Court Hearing where everything went fine—same judge as last time--and Katya didn’t even need to be there. The judge set our next court date (final-Godwilling) for Tuesday at 2:00pm. After, Tanya recommended a café that we went to for lunch with the girls, and Oles.

Thursday Tim and I walked approximately 15 kilometers (8 ½ miles) through a beautiful park to the center of town.
One of the highlights was seeing bathing-suit clad people (even a woman!) coming from a hot banya (one room shack that is heated like a sauna or steam room) and walking down steps to dip themselves in the freezing river. It was snowing out! Another man was breaking off branches to hit each other with in the banya. I didn’t realize how popular this activity still is here! (Tim saw the same thing on his walk this morning!) Also, folks were cross-country skiing and many older folks were out walking in the snow. Men were ice-fishing on the Desna River. It’s charming to see so many folks out in all kinds of weather communing with nature and each other.
When we reached town, we visited a beautiful cathedral and had a snack in a quaint café in town. After some window-shopping and dinner, we took a cab back to the hotel as Oles was still in Kiev.
Katya has a roommate that just came to the orphanage 2 or 3 weeks ago named Marina. She cried for the first few days we were there and stayed in bed almost all day. She wouldn’t join in our Uno games and when she wasn’t crying just clutched a cell phone she has. Katya told us she just wants to go home. Olha told us that her mother brought her here because she has just had another baby and can’t afford all her children (4or5) and Marina is the oldest at around 13. It’s heartbreaking to see this end of it. Please pray for this sweet little girl who is so homesick.
Well, that’s all for now. We miss you. Charlene

Now some pictures (from Tim)

1. We continue to enjoy the wide range of transportation. On the same day we saw cars and busses, trucks and trams, bicycles, and horse-drawn carts. These carts are pretty common in the country here. Only surprise to me is that we haven’t seen any snowmobiles – maybe that’s a business opportunity.


2. Charlene’s love for animals is demonstrated here as she feeds the last of her cat food to perhaps the cutest dog ever (sorry Lucki and Freida). This dog lives at the local gas station and resembles an artic fox.


3. This is one of the churches we walked to in Chernigov. Not sure the name but it was beautiful inside as well as out.


4. A view of Charlene and the river from the nice park behind our hotel.


5. These are steps leading to a large hole cut in the ice. Today (Saturday) I took a walk and this deserted site had a line of people leaving a sauna and walking down into the ice cold water. It could have been an old-time river baptism except for the mixture of men in speedos and those without (in the interest of modesty I didn’t think pictures would be appropriate). I guess what was most interesting – was the complete silence. Nobody said anything like “Wow that water is cold!” Maybe it was the Slavic soul of quiet suffering in action.

8 comments:

Rahn's Journey said...

Hi Charlene and Tim. I have been looking for this day, the court date is set. It is about 14 days from the SDA appointment. Is everyone going through a preliminary court? We never had to but I am hearing it more often. You two make these adoptions so romantic (honeymoon)like. Kind of like for the perfect get away, adopt in Ukraine. You flow with circumstances very well. It is great that the prayer for court date is answered. We will believe that nothing will interfer with the date. I just can't help ask, did you bring your bathingsuits. That ice cold water might have some great health benefits! That--would be a true Ukrainian adventure! God bless you and the girls,
Fran

ArtworkByRuth said...

Congratulations on having your preliminary court done, praying your final verdict is swift and painless! I am in S. Ukraine adopting our girl and it's spring here. Don't envy your snow at all!

Gary and Beverly said...

Great news about court #1! We're very happy for you.

How heart breaking for Marina. Just hurts my spirit to hear but I know there are so many kids like that over there.

All is well here. We're heading to church in a few minutes and we will see if your clan wants to join us for lunch.

May God continue to bless you.

Gary & Beverly Bruce

Passanita Family said...

Tim and Charlene,
Nancy and I are still freezing and are also sleep deprived and technology challenged. Perhaps we should investigate the local polar bear club here. Some ice water might just warm us up. Glad to hear you got your court date and we will be praying for your journey.
BTW by the time we got back up to the apartment to call you we got sidetracked. Sorry!

Unknown said...

Thank you for such beautiful, poignant, and entertaining communications. Talked with Kate and kids are great but your friends are foiling all her exotic cooking plans! ;-) Dinner with the Bruces! A pot of stew to the house!

Tim I am surprised you haven't been invited into the banyas yet...I'll be expecting a first-hand account of the experience.

Here's lots of love to you both and to Katya and continued prayers that the process continues as smooth as possible in those parts.

XOXO,

Barb

Anonymous said...

Hi Tim & Charlene,
Thanks for keeping us all updated with your blogs. That breakfast doesn't look like anything my stomach could tolerate early in the morning. Hope you get good news soon and can head home with your new family member!
Take care,
Diane

Anonymous said...

SNOW DAY HERE! Wahoo! FINALLY!
Well, we'll get our dose of it today, and it will make imagining you there all the more easy! We'll run down to the James to see if there are any impromtu banya clubs forming. I remember Nicolai Revtov describing the whole stick whacking process...sounds...invigorating! Maybe if you start hanging around the ice water area with some nicely honed sticks, they will invite you in! Congrats on the court date #1, and blessings as the next one approaches.
~Jean, Jim & co.

Unknown said...

Hi Charlene & Tim, congratulations on your court date! Your trip sounds like it is going along fairly smoothly and we pray that continues. Good to hear you are eating well and getting your exercise with long walks which also must help keep you warm and better than the gym! Amazing how they enjoy the ice cold swim treatment. Enjoying your pictures, too. My heart goes out to Katya's roommate. God bless and praying for a speedy adoption. Sophie had fun spending the night Saturday....
Blessings from the Richards